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Good Riddance Friend!

That is the message I have to a former friend Jared Evans of mine who happened to have also been an ex, if he wants to throw me out the window as a friend then I do say good riddance. If you want to throw away a friendship based on the fact that even thought you are in an open relationship I don't want to have sex with you, and have made that abundantly clear to you for the months you have been pursuing it before finally trying to your partner in your "open relationship" to try to help stop them then it is your loss not mine. 

It was at your own hand that it came to that point, and it is you who are the one that has the issues to deal with.  If to be a friend one must be willing to participate in disgusting threesomes with you two when you request and when they don't then just with you then you have no clue what a friend truly is witch is a very sad thing for you, as to you they are simply potently fuck buddies and that is something that I am not.  If the fact that I have values and morals and don't wish to do such thing even while not judging you was enough to anger you then that is your problem not mine.

I don't feel sorry at all for what I am pretty positive that happened and that is that you got caught by your partner trying to step out of your relationship, you know it is an idiot that dose that an the first place and it is a first class idiot who tries to do it with some one that they have already introduced their partner to! (and they are friends on Facebook)  It is even more moronic to then keep putting the moves on the person when they have made it abundantly clear that they don't want to, because it is only a matter of time until they do go to your partner and tell them to help and try to rain you in to get your advances to stop.  It is not the person who you prosed and hounded fault for going to the one person that should have sway over you and by that point the concern that you may not be in an open relationship our out the window and they don't care if you get your nuts chopped off by the person for trying to cheat on them because they are tired of you unwanted sexual advances.

If you don't want to handle the possible repercussions of your promiscuous sexually obsessed actions then don't act in such ways and don't keep hounding people that have no interest in indulging your desires because eventually those repercussions will come home to nest and you will not like what they are.

That is all I have to say readers, sorry for going so far off of normal track hopefully I will be able to bring things back on track tomorrow as I have some other things, good things, that I would like to get around to sharing.   As always feed back and comments are always appreciated.


  1. I'm glad you got that off your chest! Some people just don't get it do they?They just don't understand that not everyone sees the world as they do. I'm glad you stood firm and didn't allow him to bully you into some thing you would later regret.

    It's his loss, not yours!

  2. Yeah I keep reminding my self of that, unfortunately or not surprising this is about the same reason our "relationship" ended when we where dating. I would not do the nasty every time we meet and any place under the sun, and got cranky at his advance. I have standards and I have values that are important to me that I not willing to compromise.

  3. Being on the same page in regards to values is a very important in a relationship. And when it comes to dating a lot of people overlook that, and then when it causes issues later down the line, they are always so surprised....sigh.

    Im glad you stood your ground with him, and didnt compromise who you are and what you believe in. That seems to be pretty rare any more.

  4. Thank you, it is nice to see someone that actually values values. It is hard these days to find that, especially it seems in the gay community as to have values is to be a "prude" and "religious nut" simply for holding the the values you find true and grew up with. They are a part of who I am and always have been and I don't see a giant reason to give them up, especially since they are not hurting any one.


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